What if I tell you, he thinks you do too much ? If you were aware of his thoughts, I bet you'd likely feel anxious and conscious the next time you attempt to approach him. Well, I'm here to help you sis!
 Let's take a look at some of the reasons why he's ignoring you even at genuine attempt.
To be honest, most of his thoughts are pretty negative. (Well uh, not so pretty). There could be tons of reasons why he's ignoring you at acquaintance phase. Now darling, after doing a little research, it appears that we're losing respect in the eyes of these men. Should we blame it on the Gen Z culture? or some bad mannerisms we've cultivated down the years ?
You meet a guy for the first time and he catches your fancy, the next thing that comes to your mind is to finally approach him because you feel you might lose the chance of meeting him next time. The fact that you approached him first, makes you look desperate and that's not a good look!.
When someone ignores you, their thoughts and reasons can vary greatly depending on the situation and the individual. Here are some possibilities:
1) He Thinks You're a Player:
Its never that easy to approach a girl. So, its absurd when she is the one making the move. Guys intentionally avoid girls who appears cheap, less sophisticated and readily available.
They sense that you're trying to manipulate them to exploit them for financial support, free meals, expensive clothing, expensive gifts, and so forth.
2)He Thinks You're in for a Casual Sex Experience:
I reached out to a few friends for their viewpoints, and the majority expressed fear that "she" might be unwell and intending to transmit sexually transmitted infection to them as a result of being wild. Men are simply aiming to protect themselves and taking precautionary measures by avoiding health discomfort.
3)He Thinks You're not His Type:
When a man finds you appealing, he is attracted to elements like your physical appearance, body shape, cognitive abilities, emotional intelligence, and personal hygiene. When you lack any of these you're never getting that attention.
4) He Thinks You're a psychopath:
" I was talking with a girl, and we were actually flirting with each other, until she told me that she could kill herself if a dude she likes, breaks up with her."
This is one of the viewpoints shared by a friend who ceased communication with a girl during their initial phase of getting to know each other. Exuding this type of behavior is a major reason why he stopped talking to you !
Spend some time to reevaluate your life and values. Men are seeking those who are compatible with future prospects. They desire someone who is hardworking, practices good hygiene, modest, loyal, intelligent, assertive, authentic, basically someone they can call home.
It is challenging to determine the exact reason behind their behavior. If it's someone important to you and the silence is causing distress, it might be worth gently reaching out to express your concerns and see if you can address any underlying issues. Share with us some of your experiences in the comment section below.
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